OK well my cousin really isn't. I had a great chat with him today. I even told him about me getting High Fived in the butt! He is sending out an email about how he didn't read the article, etc. etc.
So what about everyone else?
Like I said, I think we can judge people on how they react under pressure or in a crisis situation.
When people are quick to judge and react irrationally and poorly, affecting everyone's moral state in a negative manner, then they are perhaps not the best person to rely on for support.
When a person is nice in order to appease the immediate problem but not apt to help find the solution then they are probably not going to be a good person to help with what is really bothering you.
When people responds with support, and responds with logic, intellect and good grammar, you know that person is going to be a great person for support and smiles.
I am faced with people in my life who are ready to abandon me before asking me what the real problem is. I am faced with people who are assuming things without finding out the facts. I am faced with people who I really need in my support network but I can't trust that one day they won't fall apart on me and abandon me when I need someone the most.
How do you deal with that?
I don't know but the best way you can deal with them is this. Rationally. Be Polite. And keep an open heart.
Ok you think that's bullshit, they might abuse a situation again.
Well. If they abuse the situation again, then that's your fault for not regulating how they are aloud to treat you.
My cousin really made me happy and proud. I realize day by day how much work I have put into my life, how difficult it could be and how wonderful it is.
His dad has diabetes and it has really put focus on my own life. Our health is important now, because tomorrow there might be a road block stopping us from continuing at the pace we were.
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